Ethan Slater is keepin’ it quiet on his love life with Ariana Grande … refusing to spill any relationship tea while stepping out of court after a divorce hearing.

The actor/singer was leaving a New York courtroom Friday following an appointment to handle the ongoing divorce and custody proceedings with his estranged wife, Lilly Jay.

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Ethan didn’t wanna chat, even when asked about Ariana. We also touched on his plans for co-parenting once his divorce is finalized, but all he gave was a smirk.

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TMZ broke the story, Ethan and Ariana were spotted together last week on a date night in NYC, grabbing a a private table in the heart of Manhattan. Witnesses told us they were definitely flirty and touchy-feely during the night out.

They also took to Disney World last month, getting a VIP tour … so their relationship certainly hasn’t turned sour.

Remember, Ethan filed for divorce from Lilly in July, and sources told us Ethan “desperately” wants to co-parent their infant son.

As for Ariana and her ex, Dalton Gomez, the two simultaneously filed for divorce in September — and reached a settlement a month later where she agreed to pay him $1,250,000.