After reading Britney Spears’ memoir, many believe that the tragedies in the singer’s life all stemmed from giving her heart to the wrong place.

Britney Spears ‘ memoir The Woman In Me is truly like a “bomb” dropping on the entertainment industry, revealing a series of secret stories about the life of the female singer who dominated the music charts for a time. The book sold 1.1 million copies in the US market alone and about 2.4 million copies globally after more than a week of release.

Cover of Britney Spears’ newly released memoir.

The female singer wrote on her personal page after the book hit shelves: ” I don’t do this to attack anyone. Most of them are stories from 20 years ago. I have overcome it and am living in it.” beautiful new pages “. The Woman in Me is also the most detailed explanation to date from Britney Spears to the public. The 288-page book is filled with never-before-told confessions and stories. Through that, people also better understand the reason her life went through so many ups and downs.

The love story shocked the world

From the memoir, readers can easily see that Britney Spears’ long slide – from a famous pop star to a crazy mother who shaved her head and locked her two children in the bathroom – stemmed from relationships. toxic love, full of pain.

In recent days, netizens were shocked to learn that “Bich Nu” was forced to have an abortion by her ex-lover Justin Timberlake at the age of 19. In the book, Britney Spears recounts the early days of her relationship with the singer, from their first kiss while co-starring on the show The Mickey Mouse Club to their iconic outfits at the Awards. American Music in 2001. “Justin hurt me so much. When he left, I was devastated. Whenever anyone asked me about him, all I could do was cry,” Britney wrote.

Britney Spears dated Justin Timberlake from 1999 to 2002

In her autobiography, Britney Spears revealed that their relationship had more problems than rumored. She said she had repeatedly discovered Justin Timberlake having an affair with other female stars. For her part, the Toxic singer admitted that she once made a mistake with her boyfriend when she kissed choreographer Wade Robson at a bar. However, she told Justin Timberlake everything later and he forgave her.

When she found out she was pregnant at the age of 19, Britney Spears was surprised, mixed with feelings of happiness, not sadness. Because for a long time, she always wanted Justin Timberlake to become a new family. However, that desire was quickly extinguished when the male singer forced her to have an abortion. It was also one of the most painful moments that Britney had to go through throughout her life, which was not without its tragedies.

Even more bitterly, after accepting all the losses for herself in order to hold on to her boyfriend’s feelings, Britney Spears received farewell from Justin Timberlake through a short phone message: “It’s over!”. At that time, the public did not know the reason the relationship ended. However, Justin’s MV Cry Me A River was released shortly after, causing many people to believe that Britney was having an affair with another man.

From here, her image collapsed before the public. For many years, the female singer became the target of criticism from the press and the public for hurting Timberlake – the “golden boy” of the Hollywood entertainment industry at that time.

Justin Timberlake hinted at Britney Spears having an affair through the MV Cry Me A River

The traces of a broken marriage

Britney Spears’s subsequent relationships only served as further evidence that she was the reason why Timberlake’s heart was broken. Britney Spears’ first marriage was to childhood friend Jason Alexander. The couple married in January 2004 in Las Vegas. The two were only husband and wife for only 55 hours. The singer’s family tried every way to end the marriage because they thought Jason wanted to profit from the pop star.

Britney Spears and Jason Alexander had a marriage that only lasted 55 hours

Through stories in the media, many people believe that Britney Spears has become crazy in love, no longer in control of her own actions and thoughts. Her mental health condition caused a stir in all newspapers. After the incident, the owner of the hit Piece of Me was controlled more tightly by his family and manager, and the couple was also cut off from contact.

Not long after the quick marriage, Britney Spears continued to embark on a toxic love affair with dancer Kevin Federline and got married in September 2004. They have two sons together, Sean (born 2005) and Jayden (2006).

Britney Spears’ second marriage was equally noisy, when many fans believed that Kevin Federline was just a gold digger who wanted to use her reputation as a stepping stone to rise. However, the twenty-year-old singer at that time ignored all those warnings. Perhaps, Britney herself also knows the reason Kevin approached and stayed with her. However, with a strong desire to be loved after the breakup at that time, she still tried to hope that this man could truly become her support.

The outcome of the relationship did not surprise many people. In November 2006, Britney Spears filed for divorce and lost custody of her two sons to her ex-husband. Kevin Federline presented a lot of evidence that his ex-wife could not be a good mother when she was mentally unstable, repeatedly went to rehab, and continuously had uncontrolled behavior. Britney Spears even has to pay tens of thousands of dollars a month for her husband and children. Over the past nearly 20 years, Federline has had no shortage of times taking his ex-wife to court just because he wanted to extort more money from her.

After losing custody of her two sons, Britney Spears became increasingly out of control and was placed under the guardianship of her biological father for 13 years.

Most recently, right after being released from being under the guardianship of her biological father for 13 years, Britney Spears continued to enter her third marriage with Sam Asghari – a handsome fitness trainer who accompanied her for 5 years. before. When the wedding took place, the singer’s fans divided into two camps. Half were happy because their princess had finally found happiness with a worthy man. The other half cannot help but suspect that Sam is just the next person to approach Britney because of the singer’s enormous assets.

Britney Spears’ third marriage also lasted only 14 months. Many viewers commented that Britney went through the same “wrong path” when her marriage broke down and her ex-husband tried to siphon off money. Some sources said the source of the conflict came from Britney’s psychological instability. Asghari and the manager persuaded her to seek treatment but failed.

Sam Asghari was once expected to be Britney Spears’ happy place, but their marriage only lasted 14 months.

All my life I longed for a happy family

The book was released at a time when many people were hesitant about her series of confusing actions after being released from guardianship in 2021. Many fans enthusiastically supported the female singer’s ability to live her life according to her own standards. Now I feel embarrassed when I hear that she divorced her new husband after 14 months of marriage or posted a video of her dancing while holding a knife on Instagram.

One thing many fans of Britney Spears agree on is that she has very bad taste in boyfriends and often gives her heart to the wrong people. The reason for this partly comes from the singer’s background when she had to grow up in an unhappy family.

Throughout her memoir, Britney repeatedly mentioned her fear that her family was trying to kill her. Like a “golden egg” for the whole family, the female singer became a rich economic source for both her parents and siblings to compete for. She accused her father of making millions of dollars from her, so he tried to find ways to prolong the guardianship for 13 years.

Britney Spears was controlled by her biological father for 13 years

For that reason, Britney Spears always desires to have a happy family and is willing to sacrifice herself. She wrote in her memoir: “Exchanging my freedom for afternoon naps with my children was a deal I was always willing to accept…If they let me live my life, I will follow your heart and get out of this the right way. 13 years have passed, I feel like a shadow of myself.”

After Britney Spears’ memoir hit the shelves, many people compared her life to Taylor Swift – a beautiful and talented star but no less rebellious in love. The other point is that the “country music princess” has solid support from her family, so she still maintains her form after nearly 20 years in Hollywood, and is even more successful than before.

Meanwhile, Britney is almost stuck in the past with a series of mental wounds that never heal. On Instagram, many people say that the female singer still wears makeup and clothes like the 2000s. There is an opinion that child stars often stop growing the moment they become famous. Britney Spears is no exception. Some said they were so sad they cried when their idol looked like a ghost of herself – a beautiful version that Britney Spears never wanted time to take away from her.

Through the memoir, people feel that Britney Spears’ life is a continuous series of overlapping tragedies with no end in sight. To forget that harsh reality, the female singer always chooses to lean on people who she also knows can make her suffer more. For many of Britney’s fans, what they always want is for the “pop princess” to know how to love herself and heal herself before waiting for happiness from others.